How to Set Up a Digital Legacy Contact

If something happened to you tomorrow, could someone access your digital life?

Most people have a folder for important papers. Very few have a plan for passwords, cloud storage, or online accounts.

But our lives are increasingly digital.

Photos live in iCloud or Google Photos.

Important documents sit in Drive.

Email accounts hold financial records and subscriptions.

Two-factor authentication is tied to personal devices.

Without access, families can spend weeks navigating account recovery processes during an already overwhelming time.

Setting up a digital legacy contact is one of the simplest ways to prevent that.

This is not dramatic. It is responsible.

Below is exactly how to set it up for Apple and Google.

Apple ID: Use the Legacy Contact Feature

Apple offers a built-in Legacy Contact feature. This is the most proactive way to give someone access to your account after death.

How to set it up

On the iPhone owner’s device:

  1. Open Settings

  2. Tap your name at the top

  3. Select Sign-In & Security

  4. Tap Legacy Contact

  5. Select Set Up

You will choose a trusted person. Choose someone responsible and organized, not simply the closest person.

Apple will generate an access key. You can print this or store it securely. Your chosen contact will also receive a notification.

What happens later

If you pass away, your legacy contact must provide:

  • The access key

  • A death certificate

They can then request access to your photos, messages, and files associated with your Apple ID.

Without this setup, access can be significantly more complicated.

Google: Use Inactive Account Manager

Google allows you to plan digital access through its Inactive Account Manager.

How to set it up

  1. Sign in to your Google Account

  2. Go to Data & Privacy

  3. Scroll to More options

  4. Select Make a plan for your digital legacy

Or go directly to: myaccount.google.com/inactive

From there:

  1. Click Start

  2. Choose an inactivity period between 3 and 18 months

  3. Add up to 10 trusted contacts

  4. Select what data they can access, such as Gmail, Photos, Drive, or YouTube

  5. Decide whether Google sends them an access notification automatically or if you will share instructions yourself

  6. Review and confirm your plan

If your account remains inactive for the period you selected, Google will notify your chosen contacts and grant access based on your settings.

Do Not Skip This Step

After setting up Apple and Google access, document it.

In your emergency folder, include:

  • The names of your digital legacy contacts

  • Where your password manager is stored

  • Basic instructions for accessing important accounts

  • Any business or financial account notes

This does not need to be complicated. One clear instruction page is enough.

Prepared, Not Pessimistic

Setting up digital legacy access does not mean you expect something bad to happen.

It means you understand that life is unpredictable.

Calm is built through small, practical decisions made in advance.

This task takes less than 30 minutes. It can save your family days or weeks of stress.

That is what being calmly prepared looks like.

If you are building your emergency folder this month, this is a good place to start.

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